Where to find a girl?

I want a girl that isnt annoying and yapping like a 18yr old. I want a girl that acts respectable like a church girl but is not churchy at all. I dont want a christian girl but I want a girl with their aspects. Shes gotta be empathetic and caring of others. Where do I find these girls? I have hung around church girls but their annoying and I have hung around party girls but I cannot think of a inbetween. I dont like party girls because I cannot trust them.